Board Thread:Clubs/@comment-43432691-20191113223954/@comment-44390494-20191126033226

CJ:

So, um, first. I know how it feels like to not be enough, believe me, I can relate. I won't tell that story now because this isn't about me, but I'll do it later if its necessary. Look, I know how stressing it can be when you try to be your best self and people just don't see it. But I need you to know that they do care, and maybe they just don't show it like you'd like them too. Because they're parents, and even though they might be harsh sometimes, they'll always have one part in their hearts that actually thinks whats best for you. You didn't give that much information, so I can't really tell how they're acting, but you've got to think through thinks first. Do you have a little sibling? If so, you know how they always aren't cooperative and the parents get mad at everyone in the house? And you haven't done anything, right? But they still treat you like it was all your fault too? Well, what happens here is that it doesn't have to do with you, the thing is that adults do not have much patience, and so they get stressed about stuff that doesn't work out, and then they just won't admit it because they're adults ):D  And never think whatever you do isn't enough, because I'm sure you're a wonderful kid who tries his best and they're proud of you, they just don't show it that much. Maybe they're just trying to prepare you, you know? I can't really tell, since you'd have to give me an example. So don't feel like your not enough, and stay possitive. Keep reminding yourself that people DO care, (Yes they do, dont deny it.) and that they're just going through a lot. Because thats life, okay? Life is stressful, and I get what you mean by not knowing what to do ):D The best thing I can say its to keep going foward and getting though it. I'm going through the same thing, and a lot of other stuff, but I'm still here, arent I? ):D Try talking to your parents about it, tell them how your feeling and dont be shy to open up, because they want you to trust them, believe me. My mom and I used to be really open with each other and now . . . I guess I'm just growing up. I got sidetracked. Okay, back on topic. Just try, okay? Start without much information, just like "Hey, mom/dad? Can I talk to you? I . . . need to talk to someone." And then just settle down with them and open your doors, they'll realize what your going through and probably go into another pep talk. I'm just reminding you that they're still your parents, and they'll always care about you, whether they like it or not.

OK, IM DONE, NOW ALLI!