Board Thread:Clubs/@comment-38195691-20191127162526/@comment-44415611-20191209062204

CherryRipplepuffs wrote: SoKeepherOfTheLostCities wrote:

TheCharmingBookworm wrote: Though if the baby is going to die anyway, why kill it? Why not give it at least a chance to live? You never know, there could be a miracle. The only excuse I can give is the emotional trauma of holding your child who you'll never meet. Never comfort. Never see their smile. Never have the joy of raising. Even if it has that 0.01% chance of surviving (I say .01 because if the obstetrician already said/saw so, it's super unprobable), the 99.9% chance of holding your dead baby is so awful. You'd be scarred for life if that ever happens; you might never even have a child again. That's the only refute I can think of. Your baby dying is awful. From abortion or just a miscarriage it is not good. You will scarred either way. I know someone who had 3 miscarriages before having a child. (can y'all pray for her btw, her husband passed about a year ago and she her son isn't even 2). And I know someone young who had a miscarriage and she was devastated. What evelina said is true. Seeing your dead child might be too much, but if there is even the smallest chance of it living, I wouldn't want to abort it Yeah, y'all are right. It's better to give the child a chance rather than letting them die at your own hand.