Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-38197001-20190310222713/@comment-2603:9008:200C:7C00:F10F:249D:4508:C080-20190331171652

One common argument is that Sophie and Keefe would not work in a relationship but Sofitz would. That is not true. Foundations for a relationship are trust, communication, respect, consent, reliability and anything else I am unable to think of. Some may argue the Sokeefe wouldn't work because Keefe did not ask Sophie's consent before joining the Neverseen but what is Keefe to do. Sophie was just going to convince him to stay and he likes Sophie. Seeing someone he loves hurt would make things twice as hard. In relationships, people also need to laugh together. Fitz and Sophie may have had moments where they have joked around but Sophie and Keefe can just laugh without even trying.

Something else I think should be talked about is how Sophie wants to change her appearance for Fitz to like her. In Flashback she specifically chose and outfit to catch his attention. If you have read the whole series you know that Sophie does not like dressing up for others and wants to stay comfortable. In any romantic relationship, your partner should not care how you look. You should always look amazing in his/her eyes.

Also, I will address Fitz's emotions. In the source I will be using (LifeHacks), it says don't cross the line. By their terms crossing the line can be: Losing your temper, yelling and screaming at your partner, saying I hate you, saying something unkind to your partner, using manipulation to get what you want, going to sleep whilie angry at your partner, not saying sorry when you should have, being aggressive towards your partner, and bring your partner down when you are angry. I would say Fitz has exemplified at least 6 out of 9. The source I am using states that their thoughts is that if you cross the line once it will become easier to do it again and again. Having a healthy relationship is important because they will be together for years. Unless Fitz get's help, Sophitz will have to come to a haunt

I hope my argument did not offend anybody and if it did, I am soooo sorry.

My source: https://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/5-foundations-every-successful-relationship-needs.html

-Bloop