Board Thread:Clubs/@comment-38374359-20190323014818/@comment-38544901-20200130233300

Mallowmelt Girl wrote: TheCharmingBookworm wrote: EVERHIGHLOVE wrote: Charlotte O CATS KOTLC wrote: 174.6.16.240 wrote:

EVERHIGHLOVE wrote: 174.6.16.240 wrote: Mallowmelt Girl wrote: Charlotte O CATS KOTLC wrote: Mallowmelt Girl wrote: lol I love it

though seriously it feels like a ship that was made as a joke cause even though age doesn't matter the age gap is HUGEEE age does matter. even in the lost cities, when an elf is a minor and another is an adult, the relationship is bad and has a lot of toxic probability. especially since minors' brains aren't fully developed, they shouldn't ever be paired with adults. this is why the lylie and wytam ships are currently out of the question, at least in my mind, and they should never ever happen in the current books. sure, if it skips to where tam and linh are like 20, lylie and wytam are completely fine ships.

i'm sorry i go on rants when people say that age doesn't matter for romantic relationships If you get to rant so can I. *very large breath* so I see what you mean but wyile is in the elet towers right now (before legacy because I have not read it) and linh is only in level 5 or 6 so the age gap is not that big. To put into perspective Linh is a sophomore/junior whlie Wylie is a senior so its not that big.

sorry but that was really fun He's still an adult, and she's still a minor, though, and that makes a diffrence.

-Chloe Not when your shiping them! Shipping elves the age doesn't matter, its fine unless you want a kid an adult elf to get to gether tomarrow. Witch most of us Lylie shipppers can wait for how ever long they need to wait.

Also the didn't the couselers think of Wylie as still a kid? I still ship Lylie, just when their older.

And just because the counselors think of Wylie as a child doesn't mean that he is a child. He's legaly an adult.

-Chloe Shipping a minor with an adult can be toxic and Wylie is literally 21 years old. Linh is 16. That's a 5-year difference, meaning almost a whole 3rd of Linh's life. Wylie is about 4/3 times Linh's life. This is really bad, especially because Wylie's brain is much more developed than Linh's. Linh is just a kid. End of story. It doesn't matter in the future, so we can still ship them. By shipping them we want them to be together when they are aduilts While I agree that Wylinh would have to wait a really long time to start actually dating, aren't Alden and Della like a hundred years apart? So what if they are 5 years apart in 5 years Linh can date Wylie. Also with the Alden Della thing is also a thing and there are people in the real world that have bigger age gaps then that. So yeah. I have no idea why I am so defensive about this. Also this has benn added to so many times it's great. I'm assuming that the real life gap is bigger than 5 not 100 right? I do know peoplw who are more than 10 years apart and are happily married so I say it's fine as long as both perties enter the arrangment willingly and are happy.