Thread:Lowkey done with life/@comment-37869175-20181224194711/@comment-37869175-20181229015910

First of all, I just want to thank you so, so much for sharing your story. I can tell that that was a very personal story, and I feel honored that you decided to share it with me.

As a person who has been (and kind of still is... um, nevermind)  suicidal, I can relate to your story in some sense, though I have not been suicidal for anywhere near the same reasons. I am so, so sorry you had to go through that, and I am so happy that you decided to push through and are happier now.

BUT 

I still don't think that was necessarily the best option.

Okay, here I need to stop. '''Please, PLEASE don't think that I'm trying to convince change your lifestyle. I don't know you, and don't know what is best for you as an individual and I'm so, so sorry if this makes you think I want you to go back to times when you were suicidal. I respect you decision to identify as agender, and I'm so, so sorry if any of this is rude, offensive, or hurtful in any way. Please tell me if it is. You choose how you want to live, and all I'm saying regarding YOUR personal decision is that I'm so happy that you are happier. '''

I still believe that the key to gender dysphoria is psychology. I think that a person experiencing gender dysphoria should seek help and treatment because I still don't believe that disregard of reality is the best option. I think that people should try their hardest to love who they naturally are and not try to change that. If there truly is no other option between becoming transgender or suicide, obviously you should become transgender. But I think there are better ways of dealing with that, specifically pyschological treatment.

I don't want to go any father on the subject of gender dysphoria because I'm not comfortable talking about something that is so personal and has been such a challenge.

And about sexual orientation:

Yes, homosexuality may not be limited to humans, but that still doesn't mean that it's natural for humans specifially, or even if it is natural, if it is benevolent or malevolent.

I still think that the best way for children to be raised is by having the natural dyanmic of a female and male parent. And I know that homosexualiy is not just sex. That's not what I was saying at all. But it is romantic attraction, which still applies to what I was saying. If it was love without romantic or sexual attraction, it would just be plationic love.

Children can have different role models, yes, but they won't necessarily. Andthe closest ones, most important ones, and most influential ones are the parents. And gender does affect a person and who they are. It's not just what's between their legs. The two different genders have both different brains and different hormones. Also, your definition of "fine" is different from mine. Those children could have completely different morals and values than what I believe is best.

Again, thank you so, so much for everything. I respect you and your story so, so much, and I'm so glad you're still here and still alive. If you ever need anything, you can talk to me.

Thank you so much.