Talk:Sophie and Fitz/@comment-2601:643:867F:E460:B808:15D2:E013:F1C1-20191203003431/@comment-44135350-20191207005435

^ I understand why Fitz would be hurt by something like this, but you can't fault Sophie for not being comfortable talking to Fitz about things. Just because he's hurt by something that Sophie did, doesn't mean that she did anything wrong. It is possible for somebody to get hurt by something sombody else did even if it wasn't necessarily mean. For example, my sister came home from college once and told my younger brother that she would take him and spend time with him. Since she doesn't live at home anymore, this meant a lot to my brother. But later that day she realized she was too tired and had too much homework to do to go out with him. This made him upset because he was looking forward to spending time with her, but my sister didn't necessarily do anything wrong (I mean, people should try to keep their word, but college is exhausting and she had to get her homework done so there was really nothing she could do). Sorry for rambling, just trying to prove my point.

"They made that choice for you" Actually Sophie didn't make any choice for Fitz, because when it came to deciding what to do about the Oralie situation, he never had a choice to begin with. This is Sophie's life and Sophie's choice. Yes it pertains to him since they're dating, but that doesn't mean that he does or even should have a say in what Sophie choices to do in her life. He is not doomed to a life of scorn because of the decision she made, he can leave if he wants to. That's what his decision is. Whether or not he will let it affect their relationship, not the decision that Sophie made. Sophie making a decision about her life without Fitz doesn't make her a bad person. Fitz thinking that Sophie should've consulted with him first is honestly so toxic because when it really comes down to it, it's Sophie's decision and she isn't a bad person for making a decision about her life without him. (I know I sound like a broken record and I'm honestly starting to hate the word "decision" I'm just trying to make sure it's clear what I'm trying to say) If they were married, I could understand Fitz being upset, but even then it would still be Sophie's choice.

Ps. I completely understand what you're saying about things being perceived wrong when talking online. I was afraid my last comment would come across as I was angry but I totally wasn't and I'm not in this comment either :)