Board Thread:General Discussion/@comment-40248653-20200126161129/@comment-40248653-20200126161324

i already posted this on the comments section, but i’ll put it here as well:

so i’ve been on the sophitz page lately to see what their side of the arguments are. i’ve found lots of things, but for now i’m going to talk about a particular topic: sophitz shippers are bashing on sophie for her relationship problems with fitz in legacy. i don’t think that’s fair at all. there was this one user who asked sophitz shippers to explain sophitz’s break up and whose fault it was, and there was one reply that just made me... mad i guess

now before i get into what i’m going to say about this, i think that it’s both of their faults. sophie’s, because she really was ignoring fitz and avoiding him. fitz’s because he was being too pushy and controlling.

anyway, here is what the reply said: “It was a little bit of Fitz, but mostly Sophie. He wasn't listening much, but he had been having a long day and was kinda excited. Sophie was to blame because she ignore three calls from him, doesn't talk to him for a week, doesn't call him after he mentions his ignored calls and the week of nothing, tells him best friend about her news before him, tells his best friend she unmatchable (which obviously is lifechanging and changes Fitz's life too) before telling him, takes over his project without telling him or asking him about (also he said he would have been fine with the two of them doing it together if she had asked), and even though he's searching for his brother, when she finds him, she doesn't tell him, and lets him go.

She doesn't treat him well and ignores him a lot. He has every reason to be mad at her, and doesn't. Instead he apologizes and offers to watch Keefe for her so that she can take a short break. If that isn't sweet and forgiving, then we must all be jerks.”

do you not get the fact that telling anybody that your mother is a councillor- someone who can not be in a relationship- could bring total chaos into the elvin world? just forget about your ships for a second and think about it. now tell me, is it sophie’s fault that she didn’t tell fitz who her mother is?

and if sophie really is at fault like you claim, isn’t this just proof that they aren’t meant to be?