Talk:Sophie and Fitz/@comment-24.115.246.196-20190111052403/@comment-37530514-20190111234550

^Well you see, you can be aware that you care about someone without realizing how much you care, or that you care romantically or not. Sophie knows she cares about keefe- (Quote, Everblaze, "I don't care about that, I care about Keefe. Look at him!!") that's a well known fact. What the head-vs-heart theory does not suggest that Sophie isn't at all aware of her emotions. What it suggests is that Sophie does not know how deeply she cares about him, in her heart. Have you ever had a friend like someone else, and then you realize you like them, when it hurts? I think it's more like that.

Also, you can like people in different ways. I personally have had the dilemma of liking multiple people (I was so frustrated I was basically like "FINE I'M FORCING MYSELF TO NOT LIKE EITHER OF YOU"), and it was because each of them represented attributes I admire, but neither had both attributes. (One of them understood me really well, but wasn't very responsible, and vice versa.) I don't think you can like two people equally- but you can like both of them for different reasons.