Board Thread:Clubs/@comment-37827008-20190805195121/@comment-43994132-20191004200821

There is a girl at my school that I used to be friends with. As I got to know her, I realized that she was very shallow and fake. She also said bad things about people. Then I found out that her parents are divorced and that her dad is a very bad person. That made me feel bad for her, so I cut her some slack and continued being friends with her, even though she was kinda mean to me. I saw the path she was on, and I wanted to help her. She's the kind of girl who needs a lot of guy attention to feel good about herself. I could see where her life was heading. I first became friends with her two years ago. The second year of our friendship, things were going much better. She was still pretty rude to me at times, but her personality had improved a lot. Having a friend to talk to really seemed to help her. Then, one day she just randomly started being really bratty and rude to me for no apparent reason. I now know that it was probably because by having me as her friend, her confidence level was given a boost. Since she now has more confidence, I guess she felt like she could treat me however she wanted since she didn't need me anymore. That made me really mad because I had put a lot of effort into our friendship and sacrificed a lot for her. So, intending to just step back for a bit to get a breath of fresh air, I kept my distance a bit for a few days. Then she started spreading rumors about me. It really hurt. She started completely ignoring me. And the thing that gets me the most is that she's a Christian. She goes to church and all that stuff but she also treats people horribly, slaps her mother, swears, dresses inappropriately, and watches things on TV that she really shouldn't. I don't know what to do about her. Any advice? Also, sorry about the SUPER long message. I just haven't been able to talk to anyone about this.