Thread:CustardBursts/@comment-74.88.68.52-20181030011437/@comment-33804292-20181102010621

Hm, okay so it seems that she has lost her confidence and is at a stage of being uneasy and uncomfortable after finding out.

So it seems like she is dividing herself from the others that talk behind her back and is trying to maybe find a friendship with and your friends. I am sure that right now she has multiple emotions such as: Confuson, as to what she did wrong, why everyone was treating her this way, on what to do, who she can trust/talk to, Hurt, that her friends and everyone is suddenly being so harsh, being backstabbed, bullied, Lonely, feeling that she has no one, feeling like an outsider, never being felt this way before, Angry, a very understandable emotion right now, at her friends, those around her, those talking about her and most importantly, herself, Remorse and Guilt, as to everything she might've done to potentially hurt anyone, words that she's said, wishing she could re-do some part of her life, maybe guilty for choosing those friends, Hopeful, as to maybe finding some friends who are true and loyal that wouldn't turn on her like hers did, hopeful for some good moments.

You see, she is going through probably one the most emotional or hard times in her school experience. This isn't something that I'd personally get through and I doubt she'll get over it quickly. If we look at her point of view, she must be in one of the most stressful positions right now.

My advice and suggestion for you personally in terms of helping her and doing good for yourself is to be her friend. The thing she needs the most right now is to have someone to laugh with, trust, have a good time with and just have someone she knows will be there for her. Being her friend is one of the best things you can do for her and yourself. Think of you in that perspective, you would want others coming up to you and being your friend when everyone is laughing at you, right? So why not do what you know is right and help out someone in need. I know that you are a lovely person, and I know that you have it in you to make her feel better about everything including herself.

You being her friend will benefit you in terms of comfort. Your heart and mind will be set in such a wonderful place because you did something so kind that some people don't do. You've helped someone else and it just proves to yourself how much good you have in you. I promise you that you'll feel incredible after doing a good deed.

This is purely my opinion and you don't need to follow it if you don't want to. Thank you and I really hope everything turns out good for everybody in the end. Have a good day

~ℰⱴα➶💕☪✴ 01:06, November 2, 2018 (UTC)