Board Thread:Clubs/@comment-43432691-20191113223954/@comment-44390494-20191126034943

Alli:

Alright, look, I have a little sister too. She's a bit younger than that, though, but she's still the same. I think you should understand how much she's going through right now. Maybe she has something going on, and she's really stressed about it. People tend to releaze their anger on other people when they're just not thinking clear. Like the example I said above, how many people had has that happen to them? And I believe she's not really realizing what she's doing. She's probably trying to catch your attention, in a way. Or maybe she's not, and she's just going through something that she can't really hold on her own. So try talking to her. NICELY. YES. You'll have to be able to not yell or get stressed or show any signs of remorse or anger towards her if she's actually opening up to you. Try starting with a sweet, kindly tone with a, "Hey, can we talk?" And she'll probably go with this bratty voice yet perplexed and curious,"OKay?" Because you're sisters, and I know you all have your differences. Me and my sis fight all the time, but we still care about each other (God, I'm getting sidetracked again) She tries to catch my attention by braggin on stuff with me, and I just have to remind myself that she's just trying to be better, does that make sense? They wanna be like the older guys, the ones that are good at things and know stuff. And with that, they pretend they know everything. So just try to keep your tone steady when she annoys you, and when she braggs about stuff be like, "Oh, thats nice," In a ''not interested' voice and she'll probably drop it when she sees she's not affecting you. But sometimes you should really make her (I know you do, but maybe not in the best way you should do it) realize how bratty she's being, but with a nice tone. More like a question, I think. And so I believe I'm getting anoying with this long messages, so I'll try to sumarize:

Sometimes things are not what they seem like on the outside, and you just have to dig a bit deeper to uncover the real problem.