Talk:Sophie and Fitz/@comment-37887683-20190307025752

One thing I'll never get:

Why would head emotions be stronger than Heart emotions in the first place? Like, how come you can't recognize your heart emotions as easily? I feel like it would be the opposite, especially for Sophie.

As a newcomer in the elvin world, she really had to listen to her heart. I mean, it must take so so so so much passion and care to come to a universe (ok, i know it's not a "universe") that you didn't know existed and descide to start fighting the foreign prejudices and hate-groups. That doesn't just come from your thoughts. That comes from your HEART. Her heart lead her to do what she believes in and lead her to amazing friends and family, created an amazing support network, including the boy she loves.

...................... And people are saying she can't tell that her heart likes a boy? It doesn't add up, and if I were her, I would kinds be offended.

Can't we trust Sophie to recognize her emotions? And if not, can we at least accept her choices and not contradict them? She has a right to them, and telling her that she doesn't know her feeling is basically saying she can't understand her choices, and that's not fair to her AT ALL.

Women need to be respected, feel acknowledged, and they need to have their descisions honored.