Board Thread:Clubs/@comment-43432691-20191113223954/@comment-44390494-20191116165429

174.6.16.240 wrote: Guys, so my best friend (except she isn't really my best friend anymore and i'll probably mention her a lot, so i'll give her a fake name, Jenna) is always copying off my french homework. SHe'll just kind of be like "I don't know what this one is. What did you write . . ." and then basically copy all my answers. It makes me super uncomfortable, but if I tell her to stop, she'll get upset, and tell her mom, who'll tell my mom, who'll get me in trouble.

The thing is, she gets away with breaking my trust over and over because of her anxiety. I have anxiety, as well, and I haven't told anyone any of her secrets, so why does she have to treat all of mine like jokes?

And whenever I mention friends from outside of school, she'll interogate me, and be like "do you like them better than me?" or "how good of friends are you?" and I'm just answering things like "I like you guys all the same" or "we're . . . friends" and then she'll just ask the questions again, except "no, but, do you like them more than me?"

But the worst thing is, no one else knows about this, and if I tell them, they'll just say it's fine, or that it's because of her anxiety. Like I said, I HAVE ANXIETY, TOO. AND OCD. So why does she get away with all this?

My mom literally thinks that her friendship is the best thing that ever happened to me, or something. She'll be like, "are you and Jenna still friends?" and I'll say yes, and then ask why, and she'll say "Her friendship is so specail, and it isn't something to lose."

aaaaaaagh. why?

-Chloe Look, I think you should tell her to stop. For real, and you know what? If she gets mad about it, then she's not truly your friend. You shouldn't care if she tells her mom, becasue its NOT right to copy of your homework! she's supposed to do it! Not oyu! I'm sure your mom will understand. I'm suspecting your "Friend"" isn't tellinh her mom the hole story, so if her mom calls your mom, explain to your mom what's really happening. Don't be afraid to speak up when you know your right : )