Talk:Sophie and Fitz/@comment-43401984-20191119033103

so i've been thinking and i've realized that neither sophitz nor sokeefe work out anyways because of how little sophie puts in. we've seen it in sophitz- she hides things that mean a lot to/actively involve fitz (the unmatchable status), avoids/ignores him, and just overall neglects him. fitz tried really hard to maintain the relationship, but it did not work out because of sophie, and some of it is because fitz is prone to anger. on the other hand, i imagine sokeefe happening the same way: sophie pulling keefe in, they admit their ever-growing feelings for each other, somethings happens and sophie starts to ignore keefe bc of awkwardness in their relationship, maybe even hang out with fitz more. keefe is obviously a lot more forgiving than fitz, so i'd imagine sokeefe going smoother than sophitz, but it would end up the same way- sophie putting too little in, keefe putting too much, and overall rockiness in their friendship. that's why i think shannon made the right choice with the kind of break up of sophitz. sophie is simply not ready for a boyfriend because she does not know how to commit or how to be something more to someone who likes her. she definelty needs to get her maturity together because legacy was a display of her immaturity and rudeness. thus, i believe sophie should not have a boyfriend until she realizes her faults in her and fitz's realtionship and straight up admits them. however, if sophie gets together with keefe in the next book or something, i will be so angry, because that's so hypocritical of her. she says she's not ready for a boyfriend (and that level of admittance of her faults, while not very big, means a lot) and then she starts dating keefe; that would be heartbreaking for fitz

bottom line: regardless of sokeefe or sophitz, sophie needs to (a) be more mature, (b) committ more, (c) realize what she did wrong last time, and (d) before being a girlfriend, be a better friend.

100% guarentee that this rant did not make any sense to anybody whoops