Talk:Sophie and Fitz/@comment-2601:643:867F:E460:B808:15D2:E013:F1C1-20191203003431/@comment-44135350-20191210031757

^ I get that Fitz is helpful with decisions, but Sophie didn’t want his help and that’s not mean, wrong, inconsiderate, or rude because at the end of the day it’s Sophie’s decision and it’s something that SHE’S going to have to live with for the rest of her life. SHE’S the one who will be unmatchable for the rest of her life and SHE’S the one will have to be happy with the decision she’s made. You have to remember that they’re still teenagers and there’s a good chance she will not live the rest of her live with Fitz as her partner, so at this point in her life she needs to make decisions for her, not anyone else because her romantic relationship is not strong enough to base her decisions off of. If they were married or engaged I could understand her making her decisions off of Fitz, but right now with so little commitment in their relationship, making decisions about things that will affect primarily her off of people who may not be in her life later on would be frankly stupid. If she chose to change her decision for Fitz to make him happy, there’s a good chance that would break up, considering that they are still teenagers, and then SHE, not Fitz, would be the one stuck living with a decision that never wanted to make. And it’s honestly a good thing the she didn’t take his advice because he was clearly not in the right state of mind to think about anyone other than himself. Nothing against Fitz, but he was only thinking about himself and his reputation.